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Vol. 4, Issue 3

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May-June, 2007

In this issue:


A Favorite Quote

"The mind is malleable. Our life can be greatly transformed by even a minimal change in how we manage our thoughts and perceive and interpret the world."

Matthieu Ricard, French Buddhist monk, interpreter in France for the Dalai Lama


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Under The Radar

MULTI-RACIAL IS LESS POPULAR People.jpg

"The share of Americans who identify themselves as multiracial has shrunk this decade, an unexpected trend in an increasingly diverse nation.

About 1.9% of the people checked off more than one race in a 2005 Census Bureau survey of 3 million households, a meaningful decline from two surveys in 2000." "The data show that the nation continues to wrestle with racial identity even in the face of growing diversity…"

"The 2000 Census for the first time allowed people to check off more than one race. About 2.4% or 6.8 million people, did so in the full Census."

Jungmiwhat Bullock, president of the Association of MultiEthnic Americans said, "'To say you're black and Asian doesn't mean you're not black,' she says." 'I don't say I'm half black and half Korean. I'm 100% black, and I'm 100% Korean.'"

Source: Excerpted from Fewer Call Themselves Multiracial, Haya El Nassar, USA Today, May 4-6, 2007


Recent Career Trends

WOMEN NEGOTIATE PAY

"According to a new study by the American Association of University Women, women already earn 20 percent less than men at the same level and in the same field one year after college graduation. Right at the beginning, before taking time off for childbirth or child-rearing, women find themselves behind."

" Today, women earn about 77 cents for every dollar a man earns, according to census data, a figure that has remained steady for about a decade. The gap is deeply entrenched. The AAUW started studying the disparity in 1913, documenting different pay for men and women among federal government workers."

"The latest study is unusual because it devotes attention to the first year out of school. 'We are looking at a younger group of people who have many similarities,' said Catherine Hill, director of research for the AAUW. When they are just coming out of college, we expect to see fewer differences.'"

"The gap, starting early, only widens as time goes on, according to the AAUW report 'Behind the Pay Gap,' released Monday. Ten years after graduation, women fall further behind, earning 69 percent of what men earn. A 12 percent gap appeared even when the AAUW Educational Foundation, which did the research, controlled for hours, occupation, parenthood and other factors known to directly affect earnings." "The remainder of the gap is unexplained by any other control factors." "'That may mean,' Hill said, 'that discrimination is the root cause.'"

Executives.jpg"Babcock said women should use a 'cooperative negotiation style' to get what they want. For example, don't go to a manager and say, 'I have another job offer and unless you match it, I'll leave.' That approach would be seen as threatening from a woman, even if it could be accepted from a man, Babcock said. So instead, reframe it: 'I have this other offer, but I'd like to find a way to stay here. Can you match it so I can stay?'"

"Babcock also suggests practice. 'It may take a while for a woman to get over what she has been taught. So before negotiating, try some role-playing, she said. If you don't, you may ask for a raise and concede too fast or not negotiate at all. To prepare, sit with a colleague who knows the boss. Then go through different scenarios and ways to negotiate until you become comfortable with the process,' she said." "We get most anxious when we don't know what to expect."

"And once women know a little about what to expect, they may consider asking for what they want, as their male counterparts typically do."

Source: Excerpted from Her Gap Begins Right After Graduation, Amy Joyce, Washington Post, April 29, 2007


Career-Life Symmetry

FEET FAVORITISM

Be especially kind to your feet. They faithfully get you where you want to go ― see you through long walks, runs, standing long hours, and soon they will feet.jpgsee you through the constant flap against your heels when you don your summer sandals. If you ignore your feet when they scream for attention, you run the risk of everything from sore legs and back to over-stretched tendons in your foot, known as plantar fasciitis. Give your feet a good soaking and put your feet up now and again. Stretch before exercising. Since work requires you to "be on your toes," you can't afford to wear shoes that hurt. Shopping for shoes? Follow these basics:

"Buy for your bigger foot. Most people have two slightly different size feet. If there's extra room in the shoe on your smaller foot, compensate with an over-the-counter insert."
"Get remeasured as you age." Also, "If you have kids or gain or lose weight, your foot size may change."
"Don't forget to wiggle." "You need some wiggle room (3/8 to ½ inch) between the tip of your longest toe and the top of the shoe."
"Do the bend test. If you hold the heel of the shoe in one hand the toe in the other and twist, the shoe shouldn't bend. That way your foot's natural curve is more likely to be supported."
"Shop at days' end. That's when your feet are largest due to swelling."
"Wear the right socks or stockings. That means bring sports socks with you if you are shopping for running shoes, and slip into knee-high nylons or Peds if you are buying dressier shoes."
"Test the shoe padding. Walk on a non-carpeted floor at the store to get a feel for just how much padding the shoe has. Look for padding in the forefoot that cushions the toes and the balls of the feet and over the slight bump where your arch is."
"Don't expect shoes to stretch. Either a shoe fits, or it doesn't. Man-made materials won't stretch…"
"Let fit, not size, be your guide." Sizes vary by manufacturer. "Use your heel as a guide: It should not feel tight against the shoe (but it shouldn't slip either)."
"Go for variety. (i.e. heel, height, style, and fit) so you can rotate them, which reduces the risk of developing a shoe-related foot problem…"

Source: Excerpted from Dougherty, Margot Buzz: At Your Service, Contain It, Los Angeles, March 2007.

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GETTING ENOUGH Z-Z-Z's

Feeling sluggish and having difficulty focusing? Not looking your best when you meet your clients? Sometimes it's our sugar and caffeine-laden diets that bounce our metabolisms up and down like a yo-yo, while other times we're in need of exercise to restore energy. Still, getting enough sleep is often the main culprit.

If you're not getting quality sleep, try using bed tunes, like Bedtime Beats: The Secret to Sleep, that offers hours of relaxing music from composers like Mozart, Bach, and Chopin. You can use Quiet Comfort® headphones from Bose to block out all outside noises and listen to your favorite soothing music. I like white noise machines, which can get small enough for traveling. Whatever it takes, treat yourself to quality night sleep and get plenty of rest.


Career Tool Resources & Services

UCLA Study On Friendship Among Women
By Gale Berkowitz (excerpted)

"A landmark UCLA study suggests friendships between women are special. They shape who we are and who we are yet to be. They soothe our tumultuous inner world, fill the emotional gaps in our marriage, and help us remember who we really are.

By the way, they may do even more. Scientists now suspect that hanging out with our friends can actually counteract the kind of stomach-quivering stress most of us experience on a daily basis."

"'Until this study was published, scientists generally believed that when people experience stress, they trigger a hormonal cascade that revs the body to either stand and fight or flee as fast as possible,' explains Laura Cousin Klein, Ph.D., now an Assistant Professor of Bio-behavioral Health at Penn State University…"

"'Now the researchers suspect that women have a larger repertoire than just fight or flight, in fact,' says Dr. Klein. 'It seems that when the hormone oxytocin is released as part of the stress responses in a woman, it buffers the fight or flight response and encourages her to tend children and gather with other women instead. When she actually engages in this tending or befriending, studies suggest that more oxytocin is released, which further counters stress and produces a calming effect.'"

[A health professional at Harvard University]: "'Every time we get overly busy with work and family, the first thing we do is let go of friendships with other women,' explains, Dr. Josselson. 'We
push them right to the back burner. That's really a mistake because women are such a source of strength to each other. We nurture one another. And we need to have unpressured space in which we can do the special kind of talk that women do when they're with other women. It's a very healing experience.'"

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Community Tip:

Visit http://www.4women.gov/ the National Women's Health Information Center to learn more how to care for your health. http://womenshealth.about.com/mpchat.htm is an online chat area for women and health. Also go to http://www.themillionthcircle.com for women's support and empowerment groups to change planetary consciousness.


RECOMMENDED BOOKS:

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The Friendship Crisis: Finding, Making, and Keeping Friends When You're Not a Kid Anymore by Marla Paul

Urgent Message From Mother – Gather the Women, Save the World by Jean Shinoda Bolen, M.D.

Consider checking out these online networking and socializing groups.

ARTICLE OF THE MONTH:

Improve Corporate Team Relationships

(for complete article, click here):

Not everyone on a team project will share your concern and commitment for improving work relationships. Yet those same people will put up with difficult people and their low productivity and suffer the general lack of team spirit till they're frustrated. Those who lack skill in communication on team projects can be buoyed by your knowledge of a more effective approach…


The Coach Notes

A COMMUNITY BREAKS STEREOTYPES

helpwanted.jpgI was recently at a coach conference in Monterey, a beautiful, quiet city on the northern California coast. Attendees were from many locations and as far away as Hong Kong. When I would say that I was from Los Angeles I'd get mixed reactions. People often think of traffic, congestion and very busy people who don't always stop to help each other or even say hello in passing.

It serves us best to avoid generalities.

An event that solidifies my community pride in L.A. is called, Big Sunday. One person who wanted to make a difference in their community started this volunteer clean-up weekend, which takes place once a year in April. Now the governor's office is backing it. People of all ages come out of the woodwork to help each other clean, paint, plant, and transform areas of the city. As my husband and I picked up trash on a local beach area, I was reminded of just how good it felt to be part of my community and to know that if change can happen in such a large, diverse community, it can happen in your community too!

What community project or event can you participate in?

Laurie


Contact

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Laurie A. Sheppard
Creating At Will
Los Angeles, CA
310.645.2874
http://www.CreatingAtWill.com/
Info@Creatingatwill.com

Laurie Sheppard is a life coach, career strategist and change maven. She is a graduate of The Hudson Institute of Santa Barbara and a master certified coach with The International Coach Federation.

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